james and the giant issue

i've got a bit of a quandry....

my old friend james has resurfaced, and he's back in the states, and he wants to come visit and meet ian.

i ran this by ian and he got rather pissy about it. he says that james can come visit but he doesn't want to meet him. now that will be odd.

not sure how to handle this one. i want to visit with james but i dont' want to put my marriage on the line for it.

maybe that's a little overdramatic. i don't want ian to dislike james just becuase james and i were childhood sweethearts. that's just silly.

argh, this entry is making me testy...not the normally calming experience that i enjoy when i'm in the land of diaries...